4 things I no longer believe about friendship (because learning THIS research changed my mind)

About this episode

Danielle discusses four friendship beliefs she no longer holds, influenced by research and her experiences.

You've probably had at least one friendship belief you were sure about… until life proved you wrong. Maybe it was the idea that your two best friends are all you need, or that men just "do friendship better," or that conflict is the beginning of the end. These beliefs feel true until they don't. In this solo episode, Danielle gets personal about the friendship beliefs she once held that have completely shifted since doing this work. She pulls from the research, her own relationships, and nearly a decade of studying women's relational patterns to explain why some of our most popular ideas about friendship are actually keeping us stuck, and what to believe instead. 🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE. This week in Office Hours, Danielle shares TWO additional friendship beliefs that have evolved for her as a result of doing this work. You'll also get this month's Gathering Kit: a step-by-step activity so you can host your people in a low-cost, low-key way. Members of Office Hours get supplementary material like this with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours . TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE: What the research actually says about…

People in this episode

Host: Danielle Bayard Jackson

Topics covered

• friendship beliefs
• conflict in friendships
• women's relational patterns
• research on friendship
• personal growth

Keywords

• friendship
• beliefs
• conflict
• relationships
• women
• research
• personal growth

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters

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