About this episode

Dr. Debi Silber and communication expert Matt Abrahams discuss strategies for clear communication after experiencing betrayal.

When trust is shattered, so is your ability to think clearly, speak confidently, and feel safe expressing yourself. In this powerful episode, Dr. Debi Silber sits down with Stanford University lecturer, communication expert, and bestselling author Matt Abrahams to explore how to reclaim your voice — even when fear, brain fog, and self-doubt have taken over. Matt is the host of the globally renowned podcast Think Fast, Talk Smart and the author of Think Faster, Talk Smarter . He has spent decades helping people master spontaneous communication — the kind that happens in real time, under pressure, and when the stakes feel impossibly high. And if you've been through betrayal, you know exactly what that feels like. In this episode, you'll discover: Why most of our communication is spontaneous — and why that's actually good news Four powerful mindset shifts to help you stop freezing and start responding with confidence How to manage the physical and emotional symptoms of communication anxiety The difference between "connection" and "perfection" — and why ditching perfection changes everything How deep, intentional listening keeps you present and out of your own head What it means to…

People in this episode

Host: Dr. Debi Silber

Guest: Matt Abrahams

Topics covered

• communication after betrayal
• overcoming anxiety
• mindset shifts
• spontaneous communication
• trust in relationships
• conflict resolution

Keywords

• betrayal
• communication
• anxiety
• mindset
• trust
• listening
• conflict
• self-doubt

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Stanford University

Books & works: Think Fast, Talk Smart, Think Faster, Talk Smarter

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