Sex and the City S1E9: “The Turtle and the Hare” with Dylan Carlino

About this episode

Dylan Carlino joins the hosts to discuss the complexities of relationships and personal experiences in the episode 'The Turtle and the Hare' from Sex and the City.

Dylan Carlino of spiritual sister podcast Feelin’ Girly joins us to discuss SATC S1E9, “The Turtle and the Hare.” Samantha has a full trauma-response to being rejected and Queer Eyes a baldie with bad breath, Charlotte enters vibrator psychosis and orgasms for probably the first time in her life, Miranda stages a Rabbit intervention, and Carrie considers a lavender marriage to Stanford. We discuss how the best party favor at a wedding is a tailored piece of relationship advice, Stanford’s timeless struggle as a gay without “the gay look,” the 30’s panic of relationship musical chairs, and how an ugly guy approaching you at a bar is better than a lazy hottie's DM. Time to get off the apps and into the wild! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People in this episode

Hosts: Amelia Ritthaler, Evan Lazarus

Guest: Dylan Carlino

Topics covered

• relationship advice
• vibrator psychosis
• gay identity
• dating apps
• party favors
• orgasm experiences

Keywords

• Sex and the City
• The Turtle and the Hare
• Dylan Carlino
• relationship advice
• Samantha
• Charlotte
• Miranda
• Carrie
• Stanford

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Feelin’ Girly

Books & works: Sex and the City

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