A Tribute to Remi: When the Cat Wasn’t Mine… But the Grief Is

A Tribute to Remi: When the Cat Wasn’t Mine… But the Grief Is

March 13, 2026 · 14 min

About this episode

Scott Colby reflects on the grief of losing a friend's cat, Remi, and the deep bonds formed with animals.

This week’s episode is a little different. Most weeks on the Golden Whiskers Podcast, I’m talking about feline wellness — nutrition, longevity, enrichment, and how we can help our cats live long, healthy lives. But today I’m talking about grief. My best friend Lori’s cat, Remi, passed away on March 1st. I’m recording this episode on March 10th, so it’s still very fresh. Remi wasn’t technically my cat… but the loss has still hit me really hard. If you’ve ever loved a cat — whether it was yours, a friend’s, or one you cared for often — you probably understand how deep that bond can go. In this episode, I share a tribute to Remi and reflect on the powerful ripple effect animals can have on the people around them. I also talk about the unique grief that can come when a cat who wasn’t “officially yours” still becomes part of your heart and your daily life. Remi was a stunningly beautiful cat with a joyful spirit. She loved being outside, exploring the grass around Lori’s apartment, greeting people at the door, and opening Christmas presents like a little kid on Christmas morning. Over the past couple of months, as Remi’s health declined, I spent a lot of time helping Lori care for her…

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