About this episode

This episode features Dr. Stephen Porges discussing the psychology of emotions and the concept of free will in relation to pain and resilience.

Free will might be smaller than you hoped, but more useful than you imagined. This conversation with Stephen Porges is about the quiet shift in perspective he learnt from 50 years studying the nervous system. We are taught to believe that emotional strength means overriding fear, suppressing anger, and forcing calm. But a different story is available. One where stress is not weakness, pain is not always just pain, and emotions are not commands but signals shaped by physiology, memory, and perceived safety. In that story, awareness becomes agency. The moment you notice your internal state without instantly obeying it, a door opens. Not a dramatic door. A small one. But small doors change lives. This episode explores the psychology of emotional regulation, the biology of threat, and the possibility that resilience is less about control and more about creating the conditions where wiser choices can emerge. See reactions as signals from a system. Create safety before expecting transformation. Practice awareness to widen your range of choice. SPONSORS 🌳 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Acorns⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Smart way to grow your money $5 welcome bonus ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Acorns.com/PSYCHOLOGY⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ NEW SHOW…

People in this episode

Host: Sam Webster Harris

Guest: Dr Stephen Porges

Topics covered

• emotional regulation
• psychology of pain
• resilience
• free will
• physiology of emotions

Keywords

• emotions
• pain
• resilience
• free will
• emotional strength
• awareness
• physiology

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