Inside the World of a Professional Orgy Organizer with Ali Bravo
About this episode
Ali Bravo discusses her experiences as a professional orgy organizer and the importance of destigmatizing kink and pleasure.
Ali Bravo is a professional orgy organizer, a sex positive educator, a kinky leather artist, and a powerhouse force for destigmatizing kink, pleasure, and desire. When I met her in person a couple of weeks ago at Dixie De La Tour's Birthday Forgy (Friend Orgy), she was freshly resourced from her pre-party kink scene with one of her partners, a man who goes by the moniker Pleasure Wizard (and apparently REALLY lives up to that name!), and she was leading a group of 75 excited attendees through a consent and STI disclosure demo, capping it off with a proud announcement of her own positive herpes status. WHAT. A. BOSS. In this episode: What it actually takes to organize a 75-person orgy Why Ali uses kinky “pre-care” scenes as a leadership tool before big events Growing up fat, horny, and desperate for validation The heartbreaking origins of Ali’s pleasure journey Discovering orgasm, restraint, and kink later in life Why so many women struggle to stay connected to their bodies during sex How patriarchy disconnects us from pleasure STI disclosure, herpes stigma, and why “all the hotties have herpes” The hilariously absurd logistics of glory holes, Grope-a-Clown boxes, pussy pageants…
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