Why Am I So Weird with Women?

Why Am I So Weird with Women?

From Happy Slut by Samia Mounts

May 6, 2026 · 24 min · Season 1 · Episode 5

About this episode

Samia Mounts explores her struggles with dating women and the complexities of bisexual identity.

In this episode, I ask myself why , oh whyyy , am I so weird with women? I love them, I've known I'm attracted to them both sexually and romantically since I was a kid, and yet I've only managed to have one relationship with a woman that only lasted six weeks in college and otherwise have been a massive failure in the lady-dating department. And I'm not alone. I've heard lots of bisexual girlies talking about how they don't even feel like they can claim the bisexual label because they almost exclusively date and sleep with men. Most of the bi women I know feel they aren't "bi enough." In this episode: I’ve wanted women my whole life—and stayed silent One intense, six-week relationship that blew me open…and shut me down Why men feel “easier” (and what that says about me) The part I hate admitting: I’m the one getting in my own way Is this a me problem…or a bi girl problem? And the twist I did NOT see coming Read the original essay on my Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com/p/why-am-i-so-weird-with-women Screen For Years to Come: https://james-patrick-nelson.com/for-years-to-come SUPPORT THE SHOW, CUTIE PATOOT! Become a paying Substack subscriber…

People in this episode

Host: Samia Mounts

Topics covered

  • bisexuality
  • dating
  • relationships
  • self-reflection
  • women
  • identity

Keywords

  • bisexual
  • dating women
  • relationships
  • self-discovery
  • identity
  • women
  • dating struggles

Sponsors

FirmTech

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Substack, FirmTech

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