When Opposite People Become Your Greatest Asset

About this episode

The episode explores how two women veterans with opposite working styles leverage their differences to become effective partners.

Episode 49: "When Opposite People Become Your Greatest Asset" You know that person at work who makes decisions the opposite way you do? Who needs things from people that you don't want to give? What if the problem isn't them at all—what if you actually need exactly what they bring? EPISODE DESCRIPTION Two women veterans with completely opposite operating systems spent years on separate paths in the Air National Guard. Debi retired after 20-plus years of deployments and rebuilding her life from scratch when she realized she had no idea who she was outside of her titles. Renee built a 32-year military career and then transitioned into civilian leadership without skipping a beat. Today they work side by side on committees that pull junior enlisted women up the ranks. What makes their partnership remarkable isn't that they figured out how to tolerate their differences—it's that they figured out they need their differences. One thinks out loud and needs people around to move. The other goes internal, needs space to land her thoughts. In any other context, that tension would split them apart. Instead, it's exactly what makes them effective together. Host Shelly Rood explores what…

People in this episode

Host: Shelly Rood

Guests: Debi, Renee

Topics covered

• leadership
• team dynamics
• opposites attract
• military experience
• personal growth

Keywords

• leadership
• military
• teamwork
• personal development
• opposite personalities

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Air National Guard

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