I Don't Know What to Do... and Other Deceptions that Keep You Stuck
About this episode
In this episode, Andrea Giles discusses how the phrase 'I don't know what to do' can be a deceptive way of avoiding action and how to reclaim self-trust.
I hear it all the time: "I don't know what to do." And I get it — it feels honest and real. But what if that thought is actually keeping you stuck? In this episode, I explore how "I don't know" is often a softer way of avoiding what we do know deep down. Whether it's fear of conflict, uncertainty about outcomes, or not wanting to face what comes next, we can hide behind indecision and stay stuck far longer than we need to. I walk you through the subtle ways we delay action — waiting for more time, more clarity, or for someone else to change — and how those patterns slowly erode our self-trust. The truth is, healing and movement don't come from waiting. They come from honoring even the smallest piece of truth within you. In this episode, we cover: Why "I don't know what to do" often isn't true How waiting and avoidance keep you stuck The connection between truth and self-trust Small, powerful ways to start moving forward If you're ready to stop spinning and start rebuilding trust with yourself, reach out and I'll help you take that first step. More from me: Have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast? Submit it here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/podcast-submissions If…
People in this episode
Host: Andrea Giles
Topics covered
- indecision
- self-trust
- healing
- avoidance
- personal growth
Keywords
- infidelity
- betrayal
- self-improvement
- mental health
- decision making
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