142. Why Dating Feels So Confusing: The Three Voices That Show Up On Every Date

142. Why Dating Feels So Confusing: The Three Voices That Show Up On Every Date

May 31, 2026 · 31 min

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This episode explores the conflicting emotions experienced during dating and introduces three key voices that influence our perceptions in these situations.

Send Gemma a message Have you ever left a date feeling completely conflicted? Part of you feels excited. Part of you feels anxious. Part of you wants to see them again. And part of you feels relieved it's over. In this episode, I explore why dating can feel so confusing and how different parts of ourselves can interpret the exact same situation in very different ways. Drawing on concepts from Schema Therapy, I introduce three key voices that often show up when we're dating. ...

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