EP. 7 Are You Truly Their Person — or Just a Void in Their Life?

EP. 7 Are You Truly Their Person — or Just a Void in Their Life?

From Healing Out Loud: Boundaries & Becoming by Kayla

April 12, 2026 · 21 min · Season 1 · Episode 7

About this episode

In this episode, Kayla explores the difference between being used and being valued in relationships.

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt like you’re giving more than you’re receiving in your relationships? Or wondered if you’re truly someone’s person — or just filling a void? In this episode, we explore the difference between being used and being valued, why we fall into these patterns, and how early experiences can shape the way we show up for others. I share my personal story of loss and learning to overgive, plus a reflective exercise to help you identify the people in your life who lift ...

People in this episode

Host: Kayla

Topics covered

  • relationships
  • boundaries
  • self-worth
  • personal growth
  • emotional health

Keywords

  • relationships
  • boundaries
  • self-worth
  • emotional health
  • personal story

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