About this episode

This episode discusses the misconceptions about what women want in dating, featuring a candid conversation with comedian Graham Elwood.

What women want is one of the most misunderstood topics in dating and this episode proves exactly why. In this throwback conversation Marni sits down with comedian Graham Elwood for a candid funny and sometimes controversial discussion about dating attraction and the stories men tell themselves about women. They break down the biggest misconceptions that keep men confused frustrated and stuck including why common advice misses the mark how mixed signals get misread and what women actually respond to versus what men think they do. This episode is part debate part reality check and packed with insights that will challenge how you see dating and attraction. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

People in this episode

Host: Marni

Guest: Graham Elwood

Topics covered

• dating
• attraction
• misconceptions
• communication
• relationships

Keywords

• women want
• dating misconceptions
• attraction
• mixed signals
• conversation structure

Sponsors

Kristen and Chill, Wing Girl Method

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Kristen and Chill, Wing Girl Method

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