Ep. 566 Guide To Getting A Girlfriend (What To Do After The 1st Date)

About this episode

The episode discusses what men should do after the first date to maintain attraction and avoid common mistakes.

A lot of men can get the first date… But then they have absolutely no idea what to do next. This is a rerun episode but the advice in this one is timeless. Because what happens after the first date is usually where men either build attraction… or completely lose it. In this episode, I sit down with Jim Wolf, author of The Attract Her and Keep Her System, to talk about how men can better understand women and recognize when a woman is actually interested in them. We break down what women are looking for after the first date, the mistakes men make that push women away, and how to build momentum instead of losing it. If you have ever wondered why things seem great on the first date… and then suddenly fade out after… This episode is for you. >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty Learn more about…

People in this episode

Host: Marni

Guest: Jim Wolf

Topics covered

• dating advice
• post-first date
• attraction building
• men's understanding of women
• relationship mistakes

Keywords

• first date
• attraction
• dating mistakes
• relationship advice
• chemistry

Sponsors

Kristen and Chill Dating, Wing Girl Method

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: The Attract Her and Keep Her System, Kristen and Chill Dating, Wing Girl Method

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