The Time I Asked for Sex on Dating Apps

About this episode

Michelle shares her experience of seeking casual encounters on dating apps, joined by sexologist Dr. Mindy DeSeta to discuss the dynamics of sexual communication.

Like many of us, Michelle wasn't having much luck finding love on dating apps. So one day, she decided to stop searching for Mr. Right and start looking for Mr. Right Now . After changing her profile to a direct ask for sex… things got weird. In this episode, Jinah and Daniel dive into the wild world of online hookups, unsolicited pics, and honest sexual exploration. Joining guest Michelle is Hily's (Hily.com) resident sexologist, Dr. Mindy DeSeta , who shares expert tips on how to turn awkward sex talk into actual satisfaction.

People in this episode

Hosts: Jinah Kim, Daniel Yi

Guests: Michelle, Dr. Mindy DeSeta

Topics covered

• online dating
• hookup culture
• sexual exploration
• dating apps
• awkward conversations

Keywords

• dating apps
• hookups
• sex talk
• sexual satisfaction
• online relationships

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Hily, Hily.com

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