The Intimacy-Seeking Stalker

The Intimacy-Seeking Stalker

From Illuminating Hope by Hope House, Inc

January 26, 2026 · 5 min · Season 4 · Episode 3

About this episode

This episode examines intimacy-seeking stalking, its misconceptions, and the importance of consent and survivor safety.

Episode 3: The Intimacy-Seeking Stalker Intimacy-seeking stalking is often misunderstood and dangerously romanticized. In this episode, we examine stalking that arises from loneliness, fixation, and a false belief that a relationship exists or is destined to exist despite clear lack of consent. Victims are usually strangers or acquaintances, and in some cases the behavior is fueled by delusional beliefs, such as erotomanic thinking. We discuss why unwanted pursuit is not affection, how fantasy replaces reality, and why consent is always required for connection. This episode challenges cultural myths that excuse obsession and reinforces that survivors are never responsible for managing someone else’s beliefs or emotions. Understanding this pattern helps survivors trust their instincts and prioritize safety. Stalking Risk Profile. (n.d.). Types of stalking . https://www.stalkingriskprofile.com/what-is-stalking/types-of-stalking Host: Tina Johnson If you are in an emergency, call or text 9-1-1 . For information about our services and how Hope House can help, call our 24-Hour Hotline at 816-461-HOPE (4673) or the National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233. hopehouse.net

People in this episode

Host: Tina Johnson

Topics covered

  • intimacy-seeking stalking
  • consent
  • survivor safety
  • delusional beliefs
  • cultural myths
  • unwanted pursuit

Keywords

  • stalking
  • intimacy
  • consent
  • survivor
  • safety
  • obsession
  • delusional beliefs

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Hope House, Inc, National Domestic Violence Hotline, Stalking Risk Profile

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