About this episode

Rylan Banis explores the nuances of red and green flags in relationships through a tier list format, questioning the meanings behind these labels.

After 190+ episodes of talking, reflecting, and overanalyzing relationships, I’m trying something different, ranking red flags and green flags in a tier list format. But instead of blindly labeling behaviors as “good” or “bad,” this episode questions what those labels even mean. Which traits are actually dealbreakers? Which are context-dependent? And how much of this is personal bias versus universal truth? This one’s part experiment, part self-reflection, for anyone navigating dating without a clear rulebook. Check out my other work: https://linktr.ee/rylanbanis

People in this episode

Host: Rylan Banis

Topics covered

• relationships
• red flags
• green flags
• dating
• self-reflection
• personal bias

Keywords

• red flags
• green flags
• relationships
• dating
• self-reflection
• personal bias
• dealbreakers
• context-dependent

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