The Hidden Cost of Perfectionism (And How to Break Free)
About this episode
This episode explores the hidden costs of perfectionism and how to break free from its constraints.
Perfectionism often looks like ambition, discipline, or high standards but what if it's actually keeping you from living fully? In this episode of Integrated Being , I sit down with habits and identity coach Monica Packer , author of Sticky Habits , to explore the hidden ways perfectionism shapes our thoughts, relationships, and sense of self. Monica shares her deeply personal journey from eating disorders and burnout to discovering that perfectionism wasn't helping her grow it was holding her back. Together, we unpack why perfectionism isn't just about striving for excellence, but about where we place our identity and self-worth. We also discuss how awareness, self-compassion, and small, sustainable habits can help us reconnect with ourselves and show up more authentically in our lives. In this episode, you'll discover: • Why perfectionism is a coping mechanism not a personality trait. • The hidden signs of perfectionism, including procrastination and fear. • How perfectionism disconnects us from ourselves and those we love. • The role of identity in creating lasting change. • Why progress, not perfection, leads to meaningful growth. • Practical ways to build habits that support…
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