130 | Self-Abandonment Isn't Holiness: You Are Worth Being Loved Well
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Kristina Joy discusses the damaging belief that worthiness must be earned through self-sacrifice and reframes it through the lens of self-love and healing.
🌊 Ready for the Encounter Retreat? Email me RETREAT and let’s chat! (PS- You get 6 months in the Rooted Community for free! 🤭) What if everything you've been doing to earn your way back isn't actually making you more worthy? The over-serving, the shrinking, the never asking, the carrying your healing alone. Today I'm reframing one of the most quietly damaging beliefs I see in women after an affair: that worthiness is something you have to earn back through enough sacrifice and self-erasure. It isn't. And Psalm 23 changed everything for me around that. We explore: The self-abandonment treadmill called selflessness The Psalm 23 moment that shifted everything What Jesus actually meant by "love your neighbor as yourself" A real conversation with a private client about whether you're allowed to have an experience, a voice, and needs after causing harm What worthiness actually feels like when you receive it instead of trying to earn it Let's Connect: 📞 Book your private Breakthrough Call: https://learn.kristinajoycoaching.com/breakthrough 💌 Email: kristina@kristinajoycoaching.com
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