Parenting: sharing the mental load

Parenting: sharing the mental load

From It Takes A Village by RNZ

May 21, 2026 · 20 min · Episode 395

About this episode

The episode discusses the division of unpaid administrative tasks in parenting and how both parents can better share the mental load.

The long-standing friction in parenting - who does the unpaid, administrative, load? The scheduling and the logistics of the kids' lives. Who signs the form for a school trip, who chooses and buys the birthday presents and then organises the party, who's in the group chat for after school activities? For the parent doing too much how can they step away, and do less? And for the parent not doing enough how can they get up to speed and be better part of the system? Kristin Ward leads the parent coaching team at the Parenting Place. Go to this episode on rnz.co.nz for more details

People in this episode

Guest: Kristin Ward

Topics covered

  • parenting
  • mental load
  • family logistics
  • shared responsibilities
  • parenting coaching

Keywords

  • parenting
  • mental load
  • family
  • logistics
  • responsibilities
  • coaching
  • scheduling

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Parenting Place, RNZ

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