The ultimate 3v3 coaching guide from an elite academy coach
From It's Only Kids Football by Ben Welch and Mike Clark
June 8, 2026 · 1h 12m · Season 1 · Episode 100
About this episode
The episode provides a comprehensive guide to coaching the new 3v3 format for under-7s in soccer, featuring insights from expert Paul Barry.
In this episode, hosts Ben and Mike are joined in the studio by Football DNA's head of coaching, Paul Barry, to break down the FA’s brand-new 3v3 format for under-7s—and what it really means for coaches, players and parents. Drawing on over 30 years of coaching experience, Paul explains why 3v3 is “football in its purest form,” designed to maximise touches, decision-making, and enjoyment. The conversation explores how removing goalkeepers, referees and rigid structure creates a more creative, player-led environment—and why that’s crucial for long-term development. The episode goes beyond theory, offering practical coaching advice on what to prioritise in training, how to build decision-making through small-sided games, and why concepts like ball mastery, attacking intent, and transitions should take centre stage. Paul also shares powerful insights on coaching behaviours—from reducing sideline noise to using language that actually resonates with young players. Alongside the benefits, the discussion tackles real-world challenges, including over-coaching, parental pressure, “ball hogging,” and how to handle difficult grassroots scenarios. Whether you’re unsure about the format or…
People in this episode
Hosts: Ben Welch, Mike Clark
Guest: Paul Barry
Topics covered
- 3v3 coaching
- youth soccer
- player development
- coaching strategies
- grassroots football
Keywords
- 3v3 format
- youth coaching
- football development
- small-sided games
- coaching advice
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Organizations: Football DNA, FA
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