Should women aspire to be wives & mothers first? || With Pinky Ghelani & Gowi Odera

About this episode

The episode discusses whether women should prioritize being wives and mothers, exploring societal pressures and personal choices.

Should women aspire to be wives and mothers first or has that “should” expired? 💭 From the quiet pressure to marry and become mothers, to how this conversation plays out for both men and women, we’re unpacking it all with Pinky Ghelani and Gowi Odera. This episode had us asking the hard questions and we hope it challenges your thinking too! 🎧 Tune in and let us know what you think! ➡ Follow Pinky: https://www.instagram.com/pinkyghelani?igsh=MXY3c3I5MDdqbndpag== ➡ Follow Gowi: https://www.instagram.com/gowiodera?igsh=MWJsNmE3b2RqZGI3eg== ➡ Listen to Kahawa na Gowi: https://open.spotify.com/show/0tSXM8RB9PcsVl8fV6Gq5T?si=SBJ36yzRT9urIZJLI2FGQg Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsrelatedipromise/ Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrelatedipromise?_t=8kb6tstPmJ3 Listen to our past episodes on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3QrSf7FAEfXgc4oRcMvz2Y?si=6bdaa586e62d4ad3 Listen to our past episodes on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ke/podcast/its-related-i-promise/id1521265221 Follow Sharon on IG: https://www.instagram.com/officialsharonmachira/?hl=en Follow Noni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/noni_muchiri/?hl=en Follow Jules on IG…

People in this episode

Host: Jules

Guests: Pinky Ghelani, Gowi Odera

Topics covered

• women's roles
• marriage
• motherhood
• gender expectations
• societal pressure
• personal choices

Keywords

• wives
• mothers
• gender roles
• society
• expectations
• pressure
• personal choice

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