What Happened to Me After Grief? The Identity Loss Nobody Talks About

What Happened to Me After Grief? The Identity Loss Nobody Talks About

From Laugh, Cry, Scream: Life with Grief & Estrangement by Chris Workman & Joe Sassmen

May 13, 2026 · 31 min · Episode 8

About this episode

This episode discusses the identity loss that can occur after profound grief and the emotional challenges associated with it.

Grief does not just change your life. Sometimes it changes you. In this episode of Laugh, Cry, Scream, Chris Workman talks about the part of grief many people quietly experience but struggle to explain out loud: the identity loss that can happen after profound grief. This conversation explores: • emotional exhaustion • brain fog and overwhelm • feeling disconnected from yourself • relationship changes after loss • loneliness in grief • masking pain while appearing “fine” • why ordinary life suddenly feels so difficult after trauma and loss Because sometimes grief is not only about missing someone. Sometimes it is also about looking in the mirror and wondering: “What happened to me?” Whether you are grieving the death of a child, spouse, parent, relationship, estrangement, or another life-altering loss, this episode is meant to remind you that you are not weak, broken, or failing. You are responding to something life-changing. Resources & Support 🌐 Website: griefandhealingwithchris.com 🖤 Laugh, Cry, Scream Support Group A support community for estranged parents, estranged adult children, and anyone navigating grief, complicated family relationships, healing, and emotional…

People in this episode

Host: Chris Workman

Topics covered

  • grief
  • identity loss
  • emotional exhaustion
  • relationship changes
  • loneliness
  • trauma

Keywords

  • grief
  • identity loss
  • emotional exhaustion
  • brain fog
  • relationship changes
  • loneliness
  • trauma

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: griefandhealingwithchris.com

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