About this episode

Alli and Melisa discuss the '3+1' theory of relationships, focusing on the necessary pillars of compatibility and the role of circumstances.

This week Alli and Melisa explore the "3+1" theory from Simon Sinek which says that relationships require three core pillars of compatibility combined with one external factor -- Intellectual Compatibility, Emotional Compatibility, Creative/Sexual Compatibility and the key factor, Circumstances. Learn more about Simon Sinek here. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lesbian-chronicles-coming-out-later-in-life--5601514/support .

People in this episode

Hosts: Alli, Melisa

Topics covered

• relationships
• compatibility
• theory
• emotional compatibility
• intellectual compatibility
• sexual compatibility
• circumstances

Keywords

• relationships
• compatibility
• Simon Sinek
• 3+1 theory
• emotional compatibility
• intellectual compatibility
• sexual compatibility

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