117: The Surprising Shift That Can Save Your Marriage Communication

117: The Surprising Shift That Can Save Your Marriage Communication

From Love How Deep Marriage Podcast by Brian Mayer & Heather Mayer

February 4, 2026 · 13 min · Episode 117

About this episode

Brian discusses communication issues in relationships and offers practical strategies to improve them.

Bridging the Communication Gap in Relationships Brian from Love How Deep offers advice for couples struggling with communication problems in their relationships. He discusses why communication often breaks down and how to address underlying issues rather than surface disputes. The episode introduces practical strategies like the 'ten-second buffer' and creating a 'vulnerability culture' to foster deeper connections. Brian also shares personal anecdotes and stresses the importance of empathy and understanding. He provides resources and invites viewers to download a free workbook with communication strategies. https://love-how-deep.kit.com/practical-communication-strategies 00:00 Introduction: The Communication Gap 00:46 Understanding Surface Issues 02:25 Personal Story: The House Argument 05:05 The 10-Second Buffer Technique 06:56 Creating a Vulnerability Culture 10:53 Conclusion and Resources

People in this episode

Host: Brian

Topics covered

  • communication
  • relationships
  • empathy
  • vulnerability
  • strategies

Keywords

  • communication gap
  • vulnerability culture
  • ten-second buffer
  • empathy
  • relationship advice

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Organizations: Love How Deep

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