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This episode explores the concept of 'The Love Spiral' and offers strategies to reverse negative patterns in marriage.

Episode Title: The Love Spiral: Finding Your Way Up Podcast: Love How Deep Host: [Your Name] Guest: [Guest Name/Expertise, if applicable] Episode Number: [00X] Episode Summary Have you ever felt like your relationship is stuck in a downward spiral? One small disagreement leads to a week of cold shoulders, and suddenly you're tallying up every mistake your partner has ever made. In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of "The Love Spiral." We explore the psychology behind the negative patterns that pull couples apart—like impatience, anger, and score-keeping—and, more importantly, how to reverse the momentum. We discuss practical strategies for shifting into an upward spiral built on patience, kindness, and trust. Whether you're in a season of struggle or just want to strengthen an already great connection, this episode provides the roadmap to finding your way back to the top. Key Takeaways The Anatomy of the Downward Spiral: Understanding how small, negative interactions compound over time. The "Score-Keeping" Trap: Why keeping a mental tally of faults is the fastest way to erode intimacy. The Reset Button: Immediate actions you can take to stop a conflict before it…

People in this episode

Hosts: Brian Mayer, Heather Mayer

Topics covered

• love spiral
• marriage
• relationship dynamics
• conflict resolution
• intimacy
• psychology

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Books & works: The Love Spiral

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