Why You Keep Dating the Same Type of Man - And How to Finally Break the Pattern

Why You Keep Dating the Same Type of Man - And How to Finally Break the Pattern

July 13, 2026 · 36 min · Episode 320

About this episode

In this episode, James Preece and Tess Bremner discuss why successful women often attract the same type of partner and how to break this cycle.

Have You Ever Wondered Why You Keep Attracting the Same Type of Partner? In this electrifying episode of The Love Machine, dating coach superstar James Preece welcomes Tess Bremner, the expert behind Highest League, for an honest chat all about breakups. Join us as we explore why so many successful women struggle with repeating relationship patterns, the psychology behind subconscious choices, and how to finally break free from the cycle. You'll learn about subconscious reprogramming, core values in dating, and even the power of daily moisturising for self love. If you've ever asked yourself, "Why do all my breakups feel the same?" then this is the episode you can't afford to miss. Tune in now to discover strategies that'll help you spot toxic cycles, set new non negotiables, and approach your next breakup with confidence and optimism. About Tess Tess Bremner is the founder of Highest League and The Have It All Mentor, helping ambitious women who are done dating the same type of guy break the pattern and attract the relationship that finally matches their level. www.highestleague.com https://www.instagram.com/highestleague /…

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Host: James Preece

Guest: Tess Bremner

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Organizations: Highest League, The Have It All Mentor, www.highestleague.com, https://www.instagram.com/highestleague, https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/, https://www.jamespreece.com

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