5 Ways To Stop Getting The Ick From The Man You Actually Need

About this episode

The episode discusses how to overcome the tendency to be attracted to the wrong partners and highlights the benefits of choosing a stable, emotionally safe partner.

Are you addicted to the "chase" but exhausted by the results? It’s time to talk about why the "boring" guy is actually the one who will make you happiest. Ready to stop chasing elusive players and start choosing a stable, “spicy vanilla” man who actually feels safe and long term? Apply for a complimentary Love Strategy Session here: https://go.lovestrategies.com/begin Discover why your brain is wired to give you "the ick" for the wrong reasons and how to find a "Spicy Vanilla" partner who can...

People in this episode

Hosts: Adam LoDolce, Dr. Gary Lewandowski

Topics covered

• dating advice
• relationships
• self-discovery
• emotional safety
• partner selection

Keywords

• the ick
• chase
• boring guy
• spicy vanilla
• long term relationship

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Organizations: Love Strategies

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