Esther Perel on Why Desire Fades and How to Find Romance Again

Esther Perel on Why Desire Fades and How to Find Romance Again

July 29, 2026 · 37 min · Season 9 · Episode 6

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Esther Perel discusses the fading of desire in relationships and how couples can reconnect.

Most people spend their lives trying to find a relationship that works, but psychotherapist and bestselling author Esther Perel believes that just living day to day isn't the same as truly feeling alive. In this deeply moving conversation from Making Space, the relationship expert sits down with Hoda Kotb to pull back the curtain on why passion often fades in partnerships and how couples can bridge the distance when they start to drift apart. She and Hoda explore the delicate balance between love and desire, discussing why the space we keep, the mystery we preserve, and the ways we ignite ourselves matter in a world that often feels contactless.

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