About this episode

Angela Hare and her daughter Olivia discuss the unspoken needs of children in parenting.

“Sometimes what our kids need most isn’t a better answer… it’s just feeling understood.” --Angela In this episode, listeners will learn: How small, well-meaning parenting habits (like fixing or stepping in too quickly) can unintentionally disconnect us from our kids What kids actually need when they’re upset and why listening often matters more than solving The subtle ways parents can cause kids to shut down without realizing it Why giving kids space, while still being present, builds stronger trust and communication over time In this episode of Mama, Let’s Talk , I sit down with my 12-year-old daughter, Olivia, for a conversation that feels equal parts humbling, eye-opening, and honestly… a little risky. We talk about the things kids don’t usually say out loud to their parents, but wish they could. From feeling “babied” to wanting space instead of solutions, Olivia gives a real, unfiltered look into how kids experience us as moms. What stood out most to me wasn’t just what she said, but how simple it really is. Our kids aren’t asking for perfection. They’re not asking for the perfect response or the perfect parenting moment. They’re asking to feel heard, respected, and…

People in this episode

Host: Angela Hare

Guest: Olivia

Topics covered

• parenting
• communication
• child psychology
• listening
• trust
• understanding

Keywords

• parenting habits
• listening to kids
• trust building
• communication
• child emotions

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