Rediscovering Your Self Worth Part 1

Rediscovering Your Self Worth Part 1

July 1, 2026 · 28 min · Episode 57

About this episode

Dawna Daigneault discusses her book on self-worth and its implications for mental health and relationships.

Part one of a three-part conversation features author and therapist Dawna Daigneault discussing her book, Understanding Self-Worth: A Guide to Worth-Conscious Theory and Psychotherapeutic Practice, and introducing “birthright self-worth,” the idea that worth is inherent from birth rather than earned. Dawna distinguishes self-worth from self-esteem, explains how family systems can condition worth through transactional acceptance, and connects self-worth needs to early survival needs, emphasizing that the “how” of meeting needs (e.g., attunement vs. apathy or anger) shapes worth. She expands Eric Berne’s parental injunctions into intrusive versus abusive forms (e.g., “Be someone I like”) and describes how children prioritize attachment over authenticity, influencing adult relationships. Dawna outlines four rebuildable pillars—awareness, self-respect, self-esteem, and self-confidence—and describes therapeutic strategies for gently identifying conditions, protecting worth, and reducing shame and self-loathing. Learn more about Mary and her therapy practice here: https://marybtherapy.com Learn more about Dawna here: https://zestoflife.com/ Buy Dawna's Book here…

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Host: Mary Barbour

Guest: Dawna Daigneault

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Organizations: Mary B Therapy, Zest of Life

Products: Understanding Self-Worth

Books & works: Understanding Self-Worth: A Guide to Worth-Conscious Theory and Psychotherapeutic Practice

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