The Mother-in-Law Series: It Starts at the Wedding

The Mother-in-Law Series: It Starts at the Wedding

July 20, 2026 · 22 min · Season 1 · Episode 63

About this episode

In this episode, Brooke discusses the complexities of mother-in-law relationships that often begin at weddings, sharing insights and personal experiences.

Welcome to the first episode of my Mother-in-Law Series. In preparation, I interviewed women in their mid 20s to early 30s about their mothers-in-law, and one of them said something profound: joining a new family is like moving to another country. You don't know the customs or the language. So we (as the mothers-in-law) get to decide, will I be a friendly local or border control? In this 5 episode series, we're starting with weddings, because that's often where this relationship begins, and where hurt feelings can begin too. I share my own wedding regret: I tried so hard not to burden my mom that she ended up feeling left out, and it took us years to talk about it. In this episode: Why there's pain on both sides of wedding planning, and why it's usually a communication gap, not a character flaw Taking care of your own emotional needs first so you're not easily derailed A client's mid-wedding turnaround, and the question that changed her day: who do I want to be in this relationship? You're not the first family anymore. If you want to work on a marriage, work on the one you're in. Grace from every angle, including for the bride whose brain isn't fully done cooking yet Every…

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