69: What's Been Running You: Healing the Patterns Underneath Your Patterns with Molly Rubesh
About this episode
Diane Ortega interviews Molly Rubesh about healing inherited patterns that affect marriage and relationships.
There is a version of you that you didn't choose. She was built quietly, over years, by everything you watched and absorbed and inherited. And at some point, she starts running your marriage, your relationships, and the way you move through life. In this episode, I sit down with Molly Rubesh, relationship and divorce coach and creator of The Modern Marriage Blueprint. Molly helps women heal what's been running them quietly so they can build marriages and lives that actually feel like theirs. Her work lives at the intersection of conflict, intimacy, and money. Three places where we are most ourselves and most defended at the same time. In this episode, we talk about: The inherited patterns we carry into marriage without ever examining them Why marriage is not supposed to be really, really hard (and what to do when it is) The rocks-on-a-tray framework for recognizing what is yours to hold and what isn't The difference between a fixable marriage and one that cannot be fixed with better communication Intimacy beyond the physical: intellectual, emotional, and spiritual connection and why they come first Financial independence as a non-negotiable, regardless of who earns the income…
People in this episode
Host: Diane Ortega
Guest: Molly Rubesh
Topics covered
- healing patterns
- marriage
- relationships
- intimacy
- financial independence
Keywords
- marriage
- conflict
- intimacy
- financial independence
- relationship coaching
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: The Modern Marriage Blueprint
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