Is Everything Negotiable? The Two Muscles Most People Never Build (with Aryeh Sheinbein)

About this episode

The episode explores negotiation strategies and the mindset shifts necessary to approach deals differently.

This is a candid conversation with friend, client, and business partner Aryeh Sheinbein. I have two real-time negotiations on my desk right now (a post-divorce mortgage refinance the bank told me had only one path, and a $10K non-refundable sheep deposit I'd already mentally written off), and partly because Aryeh is one of those rare people whose default assumption is that almost every "this is the price" is actually an opening position. What started as a casual conversation turned into a working framework — the two negotiation muscles most people never build, and the one filter that tells you which one to use. We get into Aryeh's $20 baseball-card arbitrage at age 12, his 60-day-late home builder, the Walmart end-cap standoff over a $30 pricing error, the Amex deal he settled for fifty cents on the dollar, and his co-investor who keeps asking for discounts — each one demonstrating a different rule. The flip in the episode comes near the end: I assumed "non-refundable" meant the conversation was closed. Aryeh's reframe was that when the other side breaks their part of the deal first, the deposit clause loses some of its teeth — and there's almost always room to open the…

People in this episode

Host: Julie Chenell

Guest: Aryeh Sheinbein

Topics covered

• negotiation
• business strategy
• mindset
• entrepreneurship
• decision making

Keywords

• negotiation
• business
• mindset
• entrepreneurship
• decision making
• price negotiation
• non-refundable

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Walmart, Amex

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