Episode 594: When He Says “Let’s See Where This Goes,” Here’s What It Really Means

Episode 594: When He Says “Let’s See Where This Goes,” Here’s What It Really Means

From Mitchell Report Unleashed Podcast by Rory Mitchell

April 8, 2026 · 26 min

About this episode

The episode explores the meaning behind the phrase 'let's see where this goes' in modern dating and its implications.

When a guy says, “let’s see where this goes,” it can sound open-ended and even a little romantic—but what does it actually mean? In a lot of cases, it’s less about curiosity and more about keeping things undefined. It can signal interest without commitment, leaving space for connection while avoiding expectations. On this episode, we’re unpacking what’s really behind that phrase, why it shows up so often in modern dating, and how to tell whether it’s genuine exploration… or just hesitation in disguise. What it literally means. At face value, it means: “I don’t want to make any promises or define things yet. I want to continue and evaluate over time.” “Let’s see how it goes.” - It either means long-term access or temporary satisfaction. What it can mean in dating (common interpretations. He’s genuinely unsure, but interested. He might like you, but: * Needs more time to figure out his feelings * Doesn’t want to rush into labels * Is being cautious (especially if he’s been hurt before) 👉 In this case, it’s neutral—not a bad sign, but not strong either. 2. He wants something casual. Often, this phrase is a soft way of saying: * “I don’t want a serious relationship right now.” *…

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