Ep139: Mean Mommy vs Nice Mommy - which one are you?

About this episode

The episode discusses different parenting styles and the balance between discipline and nurturing in raising children.

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People in this episode

Hosts: Kate Wang, Susan Lieu, Jeanette Park

Topics covered

• parenting styles
• discipline
• gentle parenting
• child behavior
• parenting challenges

Keywords

• mean mommy
• nice mommy
• gentle parenting
• discipline
• parenting
• child behavior
• timeout

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