
Taking The Long Way Around
From My Happy Ass Life by Karen Smith
April 27, 2026 · 18 min · Season 7 · Episode 21
About this episode
Karen Smith discusses the importance of slowing down and creating space in life, inspired by Sue Monk Kidd's book.
I just have to tell you how much I adore Sue Monk Kidd’s book, When the Heart Waits! I've read it four times (and counting!) because it holds the secret to one of the hardest lessons I've ever had to learn: how to simply slow down. Today I share how I’m actively working to build quiet space and find "white space" in my life. I also introduce the Magic Wand Theory. This concept challenges us to drop our logical thoughts, tap into our spirit, and dream about what is truly possible for our business and life, encouraging us to rest in possibility to listen to God’s beautiful, still, quiet voice. Episode Highlights: [00:31] Choosing to slow down and create space [02:48] Butterflies, books, and quiet reflection [03:16] The tadpole story and taking the long way [06:12] Life’s harder lessons and perspective shifts [08:20] Hugh, Al-Anon, and releasing over-responsibility [10:21] The power of waiting and stillness [11:39] The “magic wand” exercise: thinking in possibility [14:59] Sponsors and gratitude [16:07] Rebrand update and naming challenges [16:47] Closing affirmation Links & Resources: When the Heart Waits by Sue Monk Kidd…
People in this episode
Host: Karen Smith
Topics covered
- self-reflection
- slowing down
- spirituality
- possibility thinking
- personal growth
Keywords
- self improvement
- quiet space
- Magic Wand Theory
- spiritual direction
- personal development
Sponsors
Buffalo Rock Pepsi, Holiday Beach Mechanical, Shore House Furniture, Hue Salon, Team Patriot
Mentioned in this episode
Books & works: When the Heart Waits
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