How To Do The Dating Challenge | JJ & Kait Tomlin | Part 2

About this episode

In this episode, Grant Skeldon discusses dating and relationships with JJ and Kait Tomlin, focusing on intentionality and navigating singleness.

In this second installment of the Dating Challenge 2-part series, Grant is joined by friends JJ and Kait Tomlin, the powerhouse couple behind the Heart of Dating ministry. Kait, a dating coach and author, and JJ, a dating counselor, share their own unconventional story; from meeting on a Zoom call during the covid pandemic to navigating a long-distance relationship built on character over chemistry. They unpack practical wisdom on: The Dating Challenge: Why the best setups often come from trusted mentors like Dr. Henry Cloud. Intentionality: How to move past the infatuation phase and take things one date at a time. Leading in Singleness: Why your current season isn't a waiting room, but a training ground for your calling. Whether you're currently dating or just trying to navigate singleness with purpose, this conversation offers a refreshing, godly roadmap for navigating the exciting road ahead. 👉 Subscribe to Heart of Dating: https://www.youtube.com/@HeartofDating 👉 Heart of Dating Website: https://www.heartofdating.com/ 👉 Kait's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kaitness/ 👉 JJ's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/ MORE RESOURCES: ➡︎ Watch Grant's THINQ talks…

People in this episode

Host: Grant Skeldon

Guests: JJ Tomlin, Kait Tomlin

Topics covered

• dating
• relationships
• singleness
• intentionality
• Christianity

Keywords

• dating challenge
• long-distance relationship
• dating coach
• dating counselor
• infatuation phase

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Heart of Dating

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