Ep 441 - Pandora + Chesed

About this episode

Pandora and Chesed discuss their experiences in polyamory, kink, and their unique relationship dynamics.

Join us as Pandora and Chesed share their explorations in polyamory, dating, kink, play parties and so much more. They've been sex friends since 2023, and like to use the term “otter partners” to describe their playful, cuddly connection. Throughout our conversation it's clear how adventurous they both are and how they seamlessly weave the kinky and sexy side of things into their everyday lives. Since 2025, Pandora and Chesed have been collaborators at SlutStack, a blog and podcast for overthinking sex and relationships (and sharing stories of wholesome degeneracy). They also co-organized the first SlutCon in 2025 with Aella. SlutCon is a multi-day sexuality education conference and celebration of SlutHood. Pandora (aka Dr. Bimbo) is a Berkeley-based blogger with about a decade of ethical non-monogamy experience. She writes at SlutStack about sex, kink, dating, and polyamory. After completing her PhD in engineering, she left academia to try out life as a full-time slut. Lately, she had been enjoying leaning into kitchen table polyamory, including navigating life in a group house with her boyfriends. Chesed (aka little otter) is an East Bay-based writer and collaborator at…

People in this episode

Guests: Chesed, Pandora

Topics covered

• polyamory
• dating
• kink
• play parties

Keywords

• otter partners
• SlutStack
• SlutCon
• ethical non-monogamy

Mentioned in this episode

Products: SlutStack

Books & works: PhD

Places: Berkeley, East Bay

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