
I Can't Stop Comparing Myself to His Ex | Not As We Planned Podcast
From Not As We Planned by Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris
April 8, 2026 · 41 min · Season 1 · Episode 131
About this episode
The episode explores feelings of comparison and insecurity in relationships, alongside a powerful personal story of resilience.
This episode discusses worrying about your boyfriend’s ex moving back into town, feeling on edge around a suspicious colleague who's just disappeared into thin air, and dealing with fears about your partner’s connection with his children’s mum. We also hear a powerful story of a woman who’s been through hell and come out stronger. Watch the podcast on YouTube Get a weekly BONUS episode on Patreon : Join Our Community Instagram TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
People in this episode
Hosts: Tash Gershfield, Carly Harris
Topics covered
- relationships
- comparison
- parenting
- emotional struggles
- personal growth
Keywords
- comparison
- ex-partner
- relationships
- parenting
- emotional health
- personal story
- resilience
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