Episode 291: If You Tell

Episode 291: If You Tell

July 28, 2026 · 44 min

About this episode

The episode discusses Bernadette Hyde's experience with her boyfriend Besham Sugrim, who confessed to multiple murders and the ensuing years of abuse and fear of retribution.

While Bernadette Hyde was on a walk in 1996 with her then boyfriend, Besham Sugrim, she learned he had killed someone. Although Bernadette heard what he said, she didn't believe her boyfriend was capable of such a thing and had the strong urge to fix him. After years of abuse, Besham once again shared with Bernadette that he had murdered someone. Even after learning about the second brutal murder it would be years before her husband would face justice. Besham made it clear that if she went to the police, she and her family would be next.

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