About this episode

Leo Babauta discusses the importance of emotional self-reliance and how it can improve relationships.

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People in this episode

Host: Greg Audino

Guest: Leo Babauta

Topics covered

• emotional self-reliance
• relationships
• emotional dependence
• personal growth
• happiness

Keywords

• emotional self-reliance
• relationships
• happiness
• emotional dependence
• personal growth

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Zen Habits, Optimal Living Daily

Products: Optimal Living Daily Workbook

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