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Matt Bulkley discusses how social media 'edging' contributes to teen pornography addiction and offers practical solutions for parents.

In this compelling episode of Parent Guide: Helping Your Teen Overcome Pornography Addiction, licensed psychotherapist Matt Bulkley uncovers how social media "edging"—prolonged low-level arousal via suggestive scrolls on TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube Shorts—is quietly fueling many teens' porn struggles, often without visiting explicit sites. Titled "The Hidden Cycle: How Social Media 'Edging' Is Secretly Fueling Your Teen’s Porn Addiction—And What You Can Do About It", Bulkley explains: Why "teasing" content (partially clothed/obscured) can trigger stronger arousal than full nudity (citing 2020 research). How algorithms create passive dopamine loops of anticipation and craving. Real case studies showing innocent feeds turning suggestive. Signs of the "Digital Hangover": irritability, fog, sleep issues. Parents get practical steps: Joint "Algorithm Audits" to reset feeds. Reframing apps—not teens—as the problem. Dopamine resets with exercise, connection, and hobbies. He also covers when to seek help, recommending the Recovery Toolbox for Teens (therapyassociates.net) and STAR Guides Wilderness Therapy (starguides.net).A hopeful, evidence-based guide to breaking the cycle and…

People in this episode

Host: Matt Bulkley

Topics covered

• social media
• pornography addiction
• teen mental health
• dopamine loops
• parenting strategies
• digital landscape

Keywords

• social media
• porn addiction
• teenagers
• dopamine
• parenting
• mental health
• algorithm

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Recovery Toolbox for Teens, STAR Guides Wilderness Therapy

Books & works: The Hidden Cycle: How Social Media 'Edging' Is Secretly Fueling Your Teen’s Porn Addiction—And What You Can Do About It

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• Episode 40: Gym Motivation to Soft Porn: How the Algorithm Is Undoing Your Teen’s Recovery · April 15, 2026 · 15 min
• Episode 39: The Hidden Power of Boredom: How Embracing Silence Helps Teens Beat Porn Addiction · April 10, 2026 · 25 min
• Episode 38: Why Your Teen Keeps Relapsing (Even When They Really Want to Quit) – The Hidden Brain Science of Shame · April 3, 2026 · 19 min
• Episode 37: Gut Check: How Diet Is Making Porn Addiction Harder to Beat (And How to Flip the Script) · March 25, 2026 · 18 min
• Episode 36: Parenting Teens in the Digital Age: Master Reflective Listening to Tackle Porn, Gaming & Tech Addiction · March 20, 2026 · 21 min

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