Golden Retriever Dads & The ‘You Come Last’ Rule

About this episode

The episode discusses the controversial parenting rule of putting oneself last while parenting, along with various current events and recommendations.

We’re unpacking the 'parenting rule' that blew up the comments section this week: While the kids are awake, you come last. The Internet had thoughts and so do Monique Bowley, Clare Stephens and Amelia Lester. So, does putting yourself  first actually make you a better parent? Plus, we look at the the Barbie Dream Fest — or as the internet is calling it, Fyre Festival for toddlers. Imagine paying $190 USD for an ‘immersive experience’ only to find a warehouse, a concrete floor and a cardboard box with a pink blanket.  Also, Parks and Recreation actor Chris Pratt's wife Katherine Schwarzenegger has paid tribute to him on social media, calling him a 'Golden Retriever Husband', after he built their daughters a doll house. So why is the Internet still so annoyed with him over an Instagram caption from 2021 about opening a jar of pickles? And, we explore why a Sydney school’s experiment to ditch school uniforms was ulimately an epic fail. Our Recommendations: 🏀 Monz is loving the Noisy by Nature podcast on the ABC Kids Listen app — think David Attenborough meets The Wiggles. 📖 Clare recommends the Houdini Stop from Big W to stop your…

People in this episode

Hosts: Monique Bowley, Amelia Lester, Stacey Hicks, Ruth Devine, Tessa Kotowicz

Topics covered

• parenting
• self-care
• Barbie Dream Fest
• school uniforms

Keywords

• Golden Retriever Dads
• Katherine Schwarzenegger
• Chris Pratt
• Sydney school experiment

Mentioned in this episode

Products: the Houdini Stop from Big W, Brain Quest Smart Cards, Noisy by Nature, Houdini Stop

Books & works: Parks and Recreation, Noisy by Nature, The Wiggles, Parenting Out Loud, The Celebrity Who Loves Bad Kids

Places: Sydney

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