About this episode

John R. Miles discusses the concept of Identity Gravity and how it affects our ability to change habits.

Does the silence of a new life feel like a threat to your safety? You’ve finally walked through the threshold, but the "silence" starts to itch. Suddenly, you feel a physical, vibrating urge to go back to being the "Fixer"—the version of you that is useful, busy, and predictable. That urge has a name: Identity Gravity. In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles explores the "Architecture of the Interior" and the psychological forces that pull us back into old orbits. Drawing on the external market systems discussed with Nobel Laureate Alvin Roth, the psychological flexibility frameworks of Dr. Diana Hill, and the raw "Identity Bankruptcy" of TOMS founder Blake Mycoskie, John explains how to achieve escape velocity. This is a deep dive into the neurobiology of the Default Mode Network (DMN) and the "Moral Economics" of the self. It’s time to stop being a tool for someone else’s convenience and learn how to break the identity gravity trap. Passion Struck is the #1 personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/how-to-break-identity-gravity/ Explore the Identity Gravity Audit for…

People in this episode

Host: John R. Miles

Topics covered

• identity
• habits
• psychology
• self-improvement
• neurobiology
• personal growth

Keywords

• Identity Gravity
• Default Mode Network
• psychological flexibility
• neurobiology
• personal growth
• habits
• self-improvement

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Organizations: TOMS

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