398 | CCPT Mythbusters: The Child Has to Talk About It

398 | CCPT Mythbusters: The Child Has to Talk About It

May 19, 2026 · 17 min · Season 1 · Episode 398

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This episode debunks the myth that children must verbally discuss their problems in play therapy, emphasizing the importance of play as a means of processing experiences.

In this episode of the CCPT Mythbusters series, I tackle the belief that "play therapy isn't enough" unless children verbally talk about their problems. I explain why this myth is rooted in adulthood bias and the false assumption that children process experiences cognitively and verbally the way adults do. In reality, children are experiential and emotional beings who naturally work through their world through play. Talking is not required for healing to occur, and in many cases, insisting that children verbally discuss something actually interferes with their process. I also discuss why words themselves are not the source of therapeutic change in CCPT. Children do not even need to speak in the playroom—or share the same language as the therapist—for meaningful healing to happen. Through relationship, environment, emotional attunement, and trust in the child's process, children reveal exactly what they need to work through. This episode is a powerful reminder that our role is not to direct, interrogate, or force insight, but to faithfully provide the conditions that allow children to self-actualize in their own way and in their own time. Join me for our LIVE 400th Episode…

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Host: Dr. Brenna Hicks

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Organizations: Play Therapy Podcast, PlayTherapyNow.com

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