About this episode

The episode discusses navigating healthy sexual intimacy in recovery from porn addiction and betrayal trauma.

In this episode (335), we respond to a courageous submission from a betrayed partner who is navigating early recovery with her partner after multiple discovery days. Both partners have trauma histories, both are in individual therapy, and both are trying to understand what healthy sexual intimacy can look like after porn addiction, betrayal trauma, and past sexual coping patterns. Her questions center on lingerie, fantasies, kinks, dressing up, and whether these elements can ever be part of a...

People in this episode

Hosts: Steve Moore, Mark Kastleman

Topics covered

• healthy sexuality
• porn addiction
• betrayal trauma
• intimacy
• recovery
• fantasies
• kinks

Keywords

• sexual intimacy
• porn addiction
• betrayal trauma
• recovery
• fantasies
• kinks
• lingerie

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