273: Why You Keep Ending Up in One-Sided Relationships
About this episode
This episode discusses the shift from seeking validation in love to taking control of one's dating choices.
So many women spend years asking the same question in love: Does he like me? Does he want me? Am I enough? And without realizing it, they build their entire dating experience around finding the answer. In this episode, we unpack one of the biggest shifts you can make in your love life: moving from trying to be chosen to becoming the one who chooses. Because when your focus is on whether someone wants you, it's easy to lose sight of what you actually need, want, and deserve in a relationship. We explore why so many women fall into "pick me" energy, how over-focusing on someone else's feelings causes us to abandon ourselves, and the simple question that can completely change the way you experience love. Episode Resources ✨ Book a Relationship Clarity Call — uncover the pattern keeping you stuck in overgiving, overthinking, or waiting to be chosen, and learn what needs to shift so you can create healthier, more fulfilling relationships. In this episode, we explore: ✨ Why so many women unconsciously audition for love ✨ How seeking validation can quietly shape your dating choices ✨ The difference between being chosen and choosing ✨ Why pulling away from love isn't always the…
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