Porn Is a Trust Problem, Not a Lust Problem — What Sin Really Is (Part 1)

About this episode

The episode explores a deeper understanding of sin as a state of reactive mistrust rather than merely a list of bad behaviors.

Send us Fan Mail Most Christian men have been handed a definition of sin that sounds like this: sin is the bad things you do. A list. A rulebook. A scoreboard. So the whole Christian life becomes a losing game of whack-a-mole — swinging at the behavior that popped up this week while something deeper keeps generating the next one. In this episode, Michael and Nick unpack a definition of sin most men have never heard: sin is living in a state of reactive mistrust. Not a behavior pro...

People in this episode

Hosts: Michael Kamber, Nick Buda

Topics covered

• sin
• trust
• Christianity
• behavior
• mistrust
• spirituality

Keywords

• sin
• trust problem
• lust problem
• Christian men
• reactive mistrust
• spirituality
• behavior
• definition of sin

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