Mastering the Art of Self-Control [Day 166 - Orchos Tzaddikim | Repentance 23]

Mastering the Art of Self-Control [Day 166 - Orchos Tzaddikim | Repentance 23]

From Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection by TORCH

July 17, 2026 · 32 min · Season 2

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Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe discusses the importance of self-control and moderation in achieving holiness according to Jewish teachings.

In this lesson from the Gate of Repentance ( Shaar HaTeshuvah ), Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe continues discussing the third protective fence of teshuvah : developing self-control by moderating physical pleasures. The Orchot Tzaddikim teaches that holiness is not achieved through deprivation, but through balance and restraint . Rabbi Wolbe explains that Judaism does not advocate excessive fasting or denying ourselves life's legitimate pleasures. Rather, it encourages us to enjoy Hashem's blessings responsibly while resisting the urge to indulge every desire. Whether it is food, drink, comfort, or entertainment, learning to leave "a little on the table" strengthens our ability to control ourselves when faced with greater spiritual challenges. A central theme of the episode is that the Yetzer Hara rarely begins with outright sin . Instead, it first encourages a person to overindulge in what is completely permissible, gradually weakening self-discipline until forbidden behavior no longer feels so distant. Rabbi Wolbe illustrates this principle through contemporary examples of overeating, unhealthy lifestyles, internet temptations, and financial dishonesty. The evil inclination succeeds…

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