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The episode discusses how the masculine-feminine polarity affects relationships and the challenges faced in real partnerships.

Get instant access to Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here . Access Kelly's Beauty Backroom event here . Eli and Alexandra say most women's nervous systems will reject a deep, present man on sight. Most of what gets sold as polarity work falls apart the second you bring it home, into a marriage, into parenting, or into a Tuesday night with bills to pay. Eli Buren and Alexandra Roxo are two of the very few teachers in this space I trust to talk about masculine and feminine dynamics as something you live, not perform. Eli has been mentored by David Deida since 2004. Alexandra is the bestselling author of F*ck Like a Goddess and Dare to Feel. I've known Eli for about a decade, and he was the one who first told me to be careful about forcing my relationship into the polished version of these teachings. This conversation goes there. What immature masculine and immature feminine actually look like in a body. Why a deep, present man can feel disarming when your nervous system isn't trained to receive him. How rupture, repair, and trauma show up inside a real partnership with a child in the next room There are red flags they want you to watch for in polarity teachers. We name them. You’ll…

People in this episode

Host: Kelly Brogan MD

Guests: Alexandra Roxo, Eli Buren

Topics covered

• masculine-feminine dynamics
• relationship advice
• nervous system
• polarity work
• immature masculine and feminine
• partnership challenges

Keywords

• relationship
• polarity
• masculine
• feminine
• nervous system
• partnership
• red flags
• immature dynamics

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: F*ck Like a Goddess, Dare to Feel

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